Raksha Bandhan is an auspicious occasion which is celebrated in India caressing sisterly and brotherly respect and love. ‘Raksha’ means fortification and ‘Bandhan’, means to tie. A sister will tie a rakhi (hallow thread of protection and love) round her brother’s arm and wish for his well being, as she makes a mark on his forehead with some substance considered as holy by the Hindus. Gifts and sweets are also offered, such as Casillas, barfi. In return, her brother will promise to protect her always and will also furnish a gift for his sisters.
The festival is celebrated by both Hindus and Sikhs. It is thought that the celebration originated from the Hindu story about Indra, king of the lesser gods. The god Vishu gave Indra’s wife a thread to tie on Indra’s right wrist in order to protect him from the demon king Bali.
Exploring the festival
Girls who have brothers are asked to bring in photographs of their siblings, pictures are displayed for other children to guess whose brother they are, talking about their similarities and differences from their sisters.
Sisters can make up simple phrases or ghazals for their brothers and got them on a card. To help them think and talk about what they feel about their brothers, lay a length of wallpaper, reverse side up, on the floor and asked to sit around it. At the top of the sheet draw some hair with felt-tipped pens and, underneath, a pair of eyes. When written, a poem could be something like: ‘Brown hair and brown eyes, you are happy when you play football and you laugh when I tickle you. I love you, my brother.’
Rakhis are made from intertwined red and gold thread and can be simple or adorned with glittery beads. Sending cake flower delivery services in Faridabad can also be considered. Some can be personalized with pictures of a brother’s interests and hobbies. Show children pictures of rakhis on the internet. Children can make simple rakhis by twisting red and yellow wool together. Stick the ends of the two lengths of wool to the edge of a table, so that they hang down, and ask children to twist one length over the other. Help each child, as necessary, to knot both ends and tie them together. Some girls may like to cut out a small circle of card, punch a hole on each side, then draw an item of interest to her brother. The ready-twisted wool can then be threaded through the holes and tied together to make the rakhi.
Try this simple cooking activity with a timely cultural twist…
Regardless of whether or not they have opposite gender siblings, children will love to make coconut burfi sweets and take them home in a decorated box. Ask each child to bring from home a washed margarine container or cottage cheese pot, with lid. They can cut paper to cover their containers, decorate this using felt-tipped pens, sequins, etc., and then use glue or sticky tape to fix it in place. For each sweet, mix one tablespoon of desiccated coconut with one teaspoon of condensed milk, pat down into an egg cup and chill for a minimum of 15 minutes. Children turn their egg cup upside down, ‘bang’ it sharply onto a plastic plate, and use a dessertspoon to lift the sweet gently into their decorated pot